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Between 65 And Death
Posted on 24/05/2018 by mevh2hpsgfr80
Many of us are between 65 and death . An old friend sent me
this excellent list for aging , and , I have to agree it’s good advice to follow … particularly the
item 19 .
01 – It’s time to use the money you saved up . Use it and enjoy it . Don’t just keep it for those
who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it . Remember there is nothing more
dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital . Warning :
This is also a bad time for investments , even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof . They only
bring problems and worries . This is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet .
02 – Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren , and don’t
feel bad spending your money on yourself . You’ve taken care of them for many years , and
you’ve taught them what you could . You gave them an education , food , shelter and support .
The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money .
03 – Keep a healthy life , without great physical effort . Do moderate exercise ( like walking
every day ) , eat well and get your sleep . It’s easy to become sick , and it gets harder to remain
healthy . That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and
physical needs . Keep in touch with your doctor , do tests even when you’re feeling well . Stay
04 – Always buy the best , most beautiful items for your significant other . The key goal is to
enjoy your money with your partner . One day one of you will miss the other , and the money
will not provide any comfort then , enjoy it together .
05 – Don’t stress over the little things . You’ve already overcome so much in your life . You
have good memories and bad ones , but the important thing is the present . Don’t let the past drag
you down and don’t let the future frighten you . Feel good in the now . Small issues will soon be
06 – Regardless of age , always keep love alive . Love your partner , love life , love your family ,
love your neighbor and remember : A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection .
07 – Be proud , both inside and out . Don’t stop going to your hair salon or barber , do your
nails , go to the dermatologist and the dentist , keep your perfumes and creams well stocked .
When you are well-maintained on the outside , it seeps in , making you feel proud and strong .
08 – Don’t lose sight of fashion trends for your age , but keep your own sense of style . There’s
nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters . You’ve
developed your own sense of what looks good on you – keep it and be proud of it . It’s part of
who you are .
09 – Always stay up-to-date . Read newspapers , watch the news . Go online and read what
people are saying . Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those
social networks . You’ll be surprised what old friends you’ll meet . Keeping in touch with what
is going on and with the people you know is important at any age .
10 – Respect the younger generation and their opinions . They may not have the same ideals as
you , but they are the future , and will take the world in their direction . Give advice , not
criticism , and try to remind them that yesterday’s wisdom still applies today .
11 – Never use the phrase In my time . Your time is now . As long as you’re alive , you are part
of this time . You may have been younger , but you are still you now , having fun and enjoying
12 – Some people embrace their golden years , while others become bitter and surly . Life is too
short to waste your days on the latter . Spend your time with positive , cheerful people , it’ll rub
off on you and your days will seem that much better . Spending your time with bitter people will
make you older and harder to be around .
13 – Do not surrender to the temptation of living with your children or grandchildren ( if you
have a financial choice , that is ) . Sure , being surrounded by family sounds great , but we all
need our privacy . They need theirs and you need yours . If you’ve lost your partner ( our deepest
condolences ) , then find a person to move in with you and help out . Even then , do so only if
you feel you really need the help or do not want to live alone .
14 – Don’t abandon your hobbies . If you don’t have any , make new ones . You can travel ,
hike , cook , read , dance . You can adopt a cat or a dog , grow a garden , play cards , checkers ,
chess , dominoes , golf . You can paint , volunteer or just collect certain items . Find something
you like and spend some real time having fun with it .
15 – Even if you don’t feel like it , try to accept invitations . Baptisms , graduations , birthdays ,
weddings , conferences . Try to go . Get out of the house , meet people you haven’t seen in a
while , experience something new ( or something old ) . But don’t get upset when you’re not
invited . Some events are limited by resources , and not everyone can be hosted . The important
thing is to leave the house from time to time . Go to museums , go walk through a field . Get out
16 – Be a conversationalist . Talk less and listen more . Some people go on and on about the
past , not caring if their listeners are really interested . That’s a great way of reducing their desire
to speak with you . Listen first and answer questions , but don’t go off into long stories unless
asked to . Speak in courteous tones and try not to complain or criticize too much unless you
really need to . Try to accept situations as they are . Everyone is going through the same things ,
and people have a low tolerance for hearing complaints . Always find some good things to say as
17 – Pain and discomfort go hand in hand with getting older . Try not to dwell on them but
accept them as a part of the cycle of life we’re all going through . Try to minimize them in your
mind . They are not who you are , they are something that life added to you . If they become your
entire focus , you lose sight of the person you used to be .
18 – If you’ve been offended by someone – forgive them . If you’ve offended someone –
apologize . Don’t drag around resentment with you . It only serves to make you sad and bitter . It
doesn’t matter who was right . Someone once said : Holding a grudge is like taking poison and
expecting the other person to die . Don’t take that poison . Forgive , forget and move on with
your life .
19 – If you have a strong belief , savor it . But don’t waste your time trying to convince others .
They will make their own choices no matter what you tell them , and it will only bring you
frustration . Live your faith and set an example . Live true to your beliefs and let that memory
sway them .
20 – Laugh A Lot . Laugh at everything . Remember , you are one of the lucky ones . You
managed to have a life , a long one . Many never get to this age , never get to experience a full
life . But you did . So what’s not to laugh about ? Find the humor in your situation .
21 – Take no notice of what others say about you and even less notice of what they might be
thinking . They’ll do it anyway , and you should have pride in yourself and what you’ve
achieved . Let them talk and don’t worry . They have no idea about your history , your memories
and the life you’ve lived so far . There’s still much to be written , so get busy writing and don’t
waste time thinking about what others might think . Now is the time to be at rest , at peace and as
happy as you can be !
And , Remember : Life is too short to drink bad wine ! ! ! Or , in my case , bad Arnold Palmer .
Steve Korker 2017/05/31
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George Gobel comedian taught fighter pilots, I believe it was in Oklahoma. Johnny Carson made a big deal about it once on the Tonight Show, to which George said, “The Japs didn’t get past us!”
Sterling Hayden, US Marines and OSS. Smuggled guns into Yugoslavia and parachuted into Croatia.
James Stewart, US Army Air Corps. Bomber pilot who rose to the rank of General.
Ernest Borgnine, US Navy. Gunners Mate, destroyer USS Lamberton.
Ed McMahon, US Marines. Fighter Pilot. (Flew OE-1 Bird Dogs over Korea as well.)
Telly Savalas, US Army.
Walter Matthau, US Army Air Corps., B-24 Radioman/Gunner and cryptographer.
Steve Forrest, US Army. Wounded, Battle of the Bulge.
Jonathan Winters, USMC. Battleship USS Wisconsin and Carrier USS Bon Homme Richard. Anti-aircraft gunner, Battle of Okinawa.
Paul Newman, US Navy Rear seat gunner/radioman, torpedo bombers of USS Bunker Hill.
Kirk Douglas, US Navy. Sub-chaser in the Pacific. Wounded in action and medically discharged.
Robert Mitchum, US Army.
Dale Robertson, US Army. Tank Commander in North Africa under Patton. Wounded twice. Battlefield Commission.
Henry Fonda, US Navy. Destroyer USS Satterlee.
John Carroll, US Army Air Corps. Pilot in North Africa. Broke his back in a crash.
Lee Marvin US Marines. Sniper. Wounded in action on Saipan. Buried in Arlington National Cemetery, Sec. 7A next to Greg Boyington and Joe Louis.
Art Carney, US Army. Wounded on Normandy beach, D-Day. Limped for the rest of his life.
Wayne Morris, US Navy fighter pilot, USS Essex. Downed seven Japanese fighters.
Rod Steiger, US Navy. Was aboard one of the ships that launched the Doolittle Raid.
Tony Curtis, US Navy. Sub tender USS Proteus. In Tokyo Bay for the surrender of Japan.
Larry Storch. US Navy. Sub tender USS Proteus with Tony Curtis.
Forrest Tucker, US Army. Enlisted as a private, rose to Lieutenant.
Robert Montgomery, US Navy.
George Kennedy, US Army. Enlisted after Pearl Harbor, stayed in sixteen years.
Mickey Rooney, US Army under Patton. Bronze Star.
Denver Pyle, US Navy. Wounded in the Battle of Guadalcanal. Medically discharged.
Burgess Meredith, US Army Air Corps.
DeForest Kelley, US Army Air Corps.
Robert Stack, US Navy. Gunnery Officer.
Neville Brand, US Army, Europe. Was awarded the Silver Star and Purple Heart.
Tyrone Power, US Marines. Transport pilot in the Pacific Theater.
Charlton Heston, US Army Air Corps. Radio operator and aerial gunner on a B-25, Aleutians.
Danny Aiello, US Army. Lied about his age to enlist at 16. Served three years.
James Arness, US Army. As an infantryman, he was severely wounded at Anzio, Italy.
Efram Zimbalist, Jr., US Army. Purple Heart for a severe wound received at Huertgen Forest.
Mickey Spillane, US Army Air Corps, Fighter Pilot and later Instructor Pilot.
Rod Serling. US Army. 11th Airborne Division in the Pacific. He jumped at Tagaytay in the Philippines and was later wounded in Manila.
Gene Autry, US Army Air Corps. Crewman on transports that ferried supplies over “The Hump” in the China-Burma-India Theater.
William Holden, US Army Air Corps.
Alan Hale Jr, US Coast Guard.
Russell Johnson, US Army Air Corps. B-24 crewman who was awarded Purple Heart when his aircraft was shot down by the Japanese in the Philippines.
William Conrad, US Army Air Corps. Fighter Pilot.
Jack Klugman, US Army.
Frank Sutton, US Army. Took part in 14 assault landings, including Leyte, Luzon, Bataan and Corregidor.
Jackie Coogan, US Army Air Corps. Volunteered for gliders and flew troops and materials into Burma behind enemy lines.
Tom Bosley, US Navy.
|| L.Pyle #1621 (Ret)